Thursday, December 25, 2008

May Allah Smooth My Way To Perfect Ease..

today, i spent the whole day with my beloved mother in law to-be and the fiance at de aida bridal, reconfirming all the bookings made. actually i really wanted my wedding theme color to be in pink, but sadly it turn out to be a gold-creamy-off-white after everybody's agreement and intelligent deliberation. konon2nye. haih. well, nevertheless i felt so relieved as everythings almost done... Alhamdulillah. all praise be to God, the Almighty. right after the discussion, we headed to his home to fill up some mandatory forms to be submitted to the kadhi and pejabat agama tomorrow. my dad needs to find two witnesses and his colleagues willing to be one. then we need to photocopy their identification cards to verify that they are eligible to be our witnesses. the procedures seems to be very tiring but its okay! hehe i am so happy to be part of those people undergoing marriage procedures! yeay. ok below are some pictures taken while we are at the boutique.


a happy me & him


sayang dengan bersemangat waja dan riang ria mencoba baju n tengkolok sakti yg oversize itu. di tengah2 pula adalah uncle zaid, the consultant.

uncle zaid (sayang asked me to call him zaid only but i insist.) i dont want to call him zaid because he looks quite old, about the same age as my father. so it would be inappropriate for me to just call him zaid??!!? (even though he has a young beautiful wife) hehe by the way maybe my fiance felt that he's the one who is becoming old. ha that one would be a relevant justification! kuikui. rilek la yayang baru 28! dah tua yeay yeay.(dalam hati)





baju-baju di sana sangat berbagai-bagai sehingga rambang biji mata dibuatnya. (pls ignore the fact that uncle zaid is actually attempting his best to interframe huh)



wokeyy tomorrow i am going to wake up early semangat semangat because i need to do my passport. but the problem is i cant find my birth certificate. in a meanwhile... my memory is telling me that i left it on my desk, back in n9. dem~



**dear God, whatever it is, i believe if You smooths a certain person's path, the person will find ease in everythings in his life. it will be evident in his hand, tongue, movements, work, concepts, way of thinking, and how the person conduct all matters and handles life affairs. not only that, i believe ease will also pervades within himself** (this is what i learnt in uia!)



Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Easy Care Minimal Ironing Machine Washable Straight Leg Dockers For Sale. Huh!

last weekend, i went to alamanda and bought some stuff. so many things displayed and i'm so glad that i didnt splurge that much especially when everythings is on christmas sale. initially, its nice to have him around as his sole function actually is to avoid me from buying unnecessary goods. but unfortunately it turn out to be the other way around. i bought two handbags, one for me and one for my mother. it took me almost one hour to choose and pick up the best. and he, the fiance tried his best to be in his utmost patient and convincing me the black one is the best. but when i asked about his opinion about the brown one, he said "cantik." same goes to the other patterns and colors. "cantik. semua cantik". haih.
guys~ never ever bring them along shopping for ladies items.


a handbag for my mother

after i had done with those handbags, we tried to find some shirts for him. he was very the picky that he only wanted red shirt to be worn with white slacks. i thought he love white-collared shirts so that he can wear it every time he go golfing. when i asked him why red? he answered "so that everybody can see me from far and hanya pandang sayaaa jerr!" what..... huh. nevermind. well, but at last, he picked up one shiny red shirt and a pair of khaki dockers. i wonder if he really wants to wear those. golfing under the hot burning sun because its totally not him! shiny red shirt?! d5-regular-fit-pleated-khaki which equals to size 32-waist!?! huh pinggang tu 32 ke sayang oi. haaa at last, what happen? thank God he's willing to wear the red-shiny-ever-seen shirt. now i just need to sell the trousers to my brother. tatau la dia nak ke tak. dah la mahal. ade2 je sayang neh. but nevertheless, i admire your motivation and spirit. because he said (at the store) he can wear a 32-inch waist by next month. haha. (provided you attend the gym and not to disappoint your instructor). by the way, i'm always here dear. no matter what size you are, size really does not matter. same goes to men right?? kihkihkih


pity.

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

Today's Plan + Today's Emotional Swing

i am suppose to meet him today but he just came back from kl so i decided to just let him rest and sleep the whole day. he's been so tired driving all the way to ipoh. ciann dierr....hehe. actually the plan is to fill in the forms together and submit it to the religious department. i need also to do my passport and hiv test and confirm all the bookings. ahhh banyaknye keje! n to make things worse, im going back next week. eeee! but nevermind. still got one more week to settle.

dear readers, lately ive been reading someone's blog which happens to be my ex dotdotdot. i am telling here. he is such a coward. now i realize that he is being dishonest to me, from the day we knew each other, days when we are together, until the last day i met him. it still haunts me but with the help from God and my sayang, i am cured. to you mr.ex. i hate you. and dear God, even though he is a cruel man, please forgive him, and shower him with your blessings. biarlah tuhan saja yang membalas segalanya. no wonder karma is treating you bad lately. maybe you deserves it.

to my dear fiance, i love you so much. couldnt care less what people say. love you to bits. thank God for sending me an angel..

my sayang bersama anak saudaranya. muaahhhh

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Wedding Preparations : Updates!

hi, meet again! just came back from putrajaya, and freaking tired. huh, but still have time to update the blog. kuikui.. ok, so far, the preparations for my wedding run smoothly. we had accomplished almost 60% of it and still working on the 40%. yesterday, mia ( my cute sister-in-law-to-be ) gave me the address and phone number for me to do the hantaran decorations.thank you dear! well, i had bought my hantaran much earlier at the quenssbay mall, penang but didnt decide yet where should i go to make those things look like wedding gifts. hehe. by the way, we was accompanied by our beloved mr. amirul, my fiance's bff. hehe. he was there to advice us on how not to spend 'borosly'. thank you amirul! your co-operation is highly appreciated. kihkihkih. ok below i exclusively uploaded things that i had bought for my fiance as the wedding gifts. mine are with him so i cant show u guys here. and please note that these are raw things and yet to be decorated! please note also that i am not a professional photographer, so the pictures look a bit weird, even though they are beautifulll in real!



clothes



handy-cam



cuff-link & tie-clip



shoes


prayer mat



chocolates




facial wash & body wash



the ring



perfume & after-shave foam



the watch



wallet & belt




socks & towel



according to the plan, we will exchange five gifts including rings and tepak sireh during the solemnization ceremony night. i also decided to give him cakes and some other delicacies, fruits as well as a prayer mat. on the next day, we will then exchange another eleven gifts and thirteen gifts from me in return. okay, apart from exchanging hantarans, bride/bridegroom-to-be must attend a marriage course which my fiance and i had done so last weekend. hehe. it was fun. :) at the end of the course, every participants must take a test and guess what? we successfully got 59/60! weeee sama la kita! hihihi.

next in to-do-list:
1 - hiv test
2 - filling of plenty of forms!
3 - verification of marital status & salary from employer
4 - mandi-manda? haha spritual & mental preparation @ ombak house

and these are the things done/partially done:
1 - wedding cards - booked @ kadkahwinku.com
2 - tents - booked @ de aida bridal
3 - dais & bedroom decorations - booked @ de aida bridal
4 - gifts for guests - booked
5 - dj & kompang & foods- ayah settle
6 - wedding gifts - to be settled
7 - photographer - still searching **
8 - clothes - two sets of french lace and a gown
9 - make-up - booked @ de aida bridal
10 - t-shirt - sponsored by younger brother(limited edition only!)


next i listed some of the possibilities that may happen and items needed which eventually leads to costs $$$$$.
khehehehe need to be prepared! so, for those who wish to get married, be prepared not only mentally and physically but also financially. :) plus, do cover yourself with life/medical insurance before commiting to a new commitment.

haa below is what we called, post-marriage costs:
1 - honeymoon
2 - things happen after honeymoon
3 - a house to live
4 - a family car
5 - education, bills, bla bla bla bla bla..........

all you need is, money. :)


Thursday, December 18, 2008

Off to Somewhere..

will be away for a short break.. all praise be to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His messenger...

Tuesday, December 16, 2008